Give up toxic love: bee and flower fable

Roses have withered, bees still desperately suck, because it never before this flower suck had sweet. But now, in this flower, bee sucking is poison.

Bees knows it, because poison bitter, and former taste is a big difference. Hence, the bees angery but it a puff would raise my head to the whole world complain, why flavor changed? !

Finally, one day, don't know what the reason that the bee vibration wings and fly, a little high. This time, it found, blasted roses, everywhere is around flowers.

This is the fable about love, is a young Chinese teacher's true feeling.

There was a time, she was brokenhearted, very painful, even thought the other ever loved her, a thought of here is sorrow, a long time she never believe the world still exists "true love."

A few days later, she suddenly say: "I want to see."

Originally, she just from jiuzhaigou back. Brokenhearted of pain is still in her, let her entangled in trance, sick, cannot enjoy the beauty of jiuzhaigou. Casual, she noticed a little bee is a flower on flower-counting. That moment, her mind as the lightning appeared a words: "withered flower, bees can suck to poison."

Of course, nature of small bee won't do that, only then the humanity is so stupid, she this sentence bees certainly refers to herself. That split second she intends to give up out of the truth. Previously, she wants to let friends to help her out, but actually is long wings to herself, she wants to fly can fly.

Giving up is not easy, especially painful of give up love. Because of our young, love is the parent-child relationship when copying. Young children, no matter from which terms, is inseparable from the father and mother. If mom and dad complete negation him, that means to him, this is the ultimate death damage and fear. We had a more or less experienced by mom and dad negative pain and fear, so when love --, the parent-child relationship replica of once again made us to experience the pain and fear, our emotions are likely to become very badly.

However, love and parent-child relationship, compared with a huge difference: when I was young, there is nothing that we can do, everything is parents calculate, But now, we grow up, we have the power to choose their own destiny. Can say, in my childhood, we are wingless small bee, but now, we have a pair of strong wings.

But when you fall in love deeply, we will return to childhood, we'll forget they have a pair of can fly wings. We figured it etc, love is no longer would be right for parent-child relationship of automatic replication, our love is free, had abandon strength.

Remember: love is two things, two completely equal and independent personality things. You can try, but not to say, you hard will have the effect, because another person, you cannot control.

So, no matter how much you really care about a love, if another person resolute want to leave you, please respect his choice.

And, even remember, you are no longer childhood, estimating the pain. You already an adult, you have a pair of strong wings, you can fly out of a has become poison relations.